The Art of Listening by Krishnamurti
" If I may suggest it, watch your own minds;
do not merely listen to my words, but through my words observe the operation of your own thinking and discover yourself.
I am describing the picture, but it is your picture, not mine. If you really watch yourself as you listen, you will find a radical change taking place in spite of your conscious mind.
It is like a seed that, being sown in fertile soil, pushes through the earth and puts out a blossom."